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Re: Passive

Posted: Sat May 05, 2012 8:53 am
by Allytheman
That doesn't matter to me anymore

Re: Passive

Posted: Sat May 05, 2012 10:07 am
by TheGoldenCheetah
dude, lieing about gender is just wierd, emphasis on DUDE

Re: Passive

Posted: Sat May 05, 2012 12:30 pm
by Allytheman
Lol cheetah

Re: Passive

Posted: Sat May 05, 2012 8:42 pm
by Nicolu
1. Defending yourself ends when you start bring up drama and indirectly insulting me to other members. (Ie. When the default asked for a rank up and you said, You can ask Nicolu but she will prob say you're not good enough)

2. When Caldrin told you he was going to pool the staff votes on your rank, You said no. Just demote you.

3. No one showed disrespect until you started. Feeding me a pitty story, followed by insulting me, didn't win me over. I've been nice to you, Despite my disbelieve in the things you represent yourself as. When you annoy the hell out of me, Saying my name every 7 seconds till you get a response, I'm still polite as much as I can be.

4. No one really cares, until you bring it up. If you would just play minecraft, and not comment on weather you're female, or have a PhD, or this that or the other thing, No one would care. Just drop it, and no one else is going to say jack shit about it.

And on a side note, I literally call every one hun. It's just how I was raised, part of my vocabulary that's used on a regular basis. This is getting outta control, you're causing more drama on this server than good you've added. Why can you not just mind your own business and build, like a normal person?

Re: Passive

Posted: Sun May 06, 2012 5:58 am
by Allytheman
Nico

1. Sorry, i was not thinking straight and i shouldn't have said that. I am sorry
2. I said that cause i knew if it happened then this would happen, i have a history of blowing things outa proportion. If he had demoted me there on the spot i probably would have shut up and moved on
3. That isn't true, i didn't find it very respectful the way you just came along and basically said, this is rubish, it made me feel very upset that you could critisize my work like that, you could have said it nicer. Also i don't think caldrin went about it the right way other. From the word go what he said to me was disrespectful. He said "Ally, assuming your continuos spelling of 'I'm a doctor' is true" which wasn't very kind or respectful. That made me angry so the situation got worse.
4. Yes, i don't even renember how we first started talking about it however my phd has just been an example of how i have not reacted properly to the situation


On the subject of hun, i just didn't feel it was the right time to say that sort of thing to me. It felt as if you were belitteling me which i don't like. I am sorry just please don't call me hun.

In all honesty Nico, i think you are a nice person and i like you and think you are a good staff, but all this has been caused by me becoming adv and you saying i wasn't good enough. You said directly to me the only difference between adv and veteran was the title and acces to the creative world (Not a big deal) so when you wanted to speak to some of the most important people on the server about it i was a bit suprised. I thought it a bit OTT. I think we need to end this drama now so maybe an administrator should lock/ delete this topic and we cn move on. But i don't think i was the only one who has done wrong here. I respect you all. How much i like you is a different thing and you must have been good and contributing people to get to staff which makes sense because that is what i see in you. I am sorry for what i have done but i think you also owe me a little bit of an apology. I am sorry. End of. I hope you understand this aswell and i hope we can sort things out like the age we are between us without disturbing the whole server.

AA

Re: Passive

Posted: Sun May 06, 2012 6:00 am
by Allytheman
Sorry that post was filled with TONNES of typos

I shouldn't write posts on my phone =D